I am going to get personal in this post. So be kind in the comments section.
I was raised with a great family. I was the third of five children. While I was growing up I had an older brother I idolized. I wanted to be just like my brother. On the other hand I had an older sister I didn't relate to as a kid because she was a girl and I was a boy what could we possibly have in common. My brother is six years older then me. A good enough distance ahead I was able to watch what he did in school, so when my mother would ask me what I wanted to do I just would look at what my brother was doing and said the same thing. While this helped me from making any real decisions I also had little knowledge of what was out there.
Growing up I was exposed to the very stereotypical career options. I knew I could become a teacher, cop, firefighter, doctor, and etc. I excelled in elementary math and social science always finishing my homework in class. When I got into high school people started to ask what I wanted to do. Well since I had never really thought about it I would just look at what my brother was doing and say business. I had no idea what college I wanted to attend and the thought of what I would major in at college never entered my mind. In fact I didn't even know what a major was. My only goal was to get into college and then do what my brother was doing. I got in a good college and when I was asked by my mother what I wanted to major in I just said business.
At this point I had never sat down with my parents or teachers or councilors about career options based on my school strengths or interests. I had never really given much thought about what I was going to do for a career. Mostly because I had never been forced to think about it. Only after I got accepted into college did I know there happened to be a business program. Most of my friends in high school just applied to schools because they were close to home very few of us considered the programs the schools offered and if they would get us towards a career we wanted. All we were doing was going to college because it is was expected of us from those around us. Once we got to college we would figure it out. What if I ended up at a college which failed to have a major I was interested in? I can tell you there was no way I was going to change schools and go through all of the hoop jumping required to apply or transfer schools.
At this point I had never sat down with my parents or teachers or councilors about career options based on my school strengths or interests. I had never really given much thought about what I was going to do for a career. Mostly because I had never been forced to think about it. Only after I got accepted into college did I know there happened to be a business program. Most of my friends in high school just applied to schools because they were close to home very few of us considered the programs the schools offered and if they would get us towards a career we wanted. All we were doing was going to college because it is was expected of us from those around us. Once we got to college we would figure it out. What if I ended up at a college which failed to have a major I was interested in? I can tell you there was no way I was going to change schools and go through all of the hoop jumping required to apply or transfer schools.
Today there seems to be a stigmatism that college is for people to discover themselves and find out who they really are and if they are serious then go to grad school and that is where things get serious. This should not be the case. College is for people to gain an education while specializing in an area they are interested in.
I spent three years trying to find out what I was interested in. I found out quickly business was not for me. I searched and searched majors to find the one for me. I talked to my mom and dad and siblings. I took major quizzes to find out what I should major in. The major quiz it would just spit out general majors without enough details for me to know if the major was for me. I finally stumbled into my major because I was getting a minor in the subject and after further research I discovered the many different career opportunities with the major. I then found that my interests with this subject dated back to when I was a child. If my parents had known the different career options based on what I liked to do as a child I could have saved time and money in college and accelerated my education and career.
I use myself as an example to see if others out there experienced similar education paths or if not how they were able to avoid the pitfalls I had. Please leave comments sharing your thoughts.